The Kitchener and Mississauga music community has been left reeling by the tragic death of Matt Lazare, better known by his DJ name, DJ Surreal. Matt, a beloved DJ and cherished friend, passed away after a long and courageous battle with cancer. His untimely death has left a void in the local music scene, and tributes have poured in from friends, family, and fans who remember him for his kindness, generosity, and passion for music.
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Born and raised in Mississauga, Matt developed a deep love for music from a young age. His journey into the world of DJing began early, and over the years, he built a reputation for his exceptional skill behind the decks. His love for music and his ability to connect with people through his craft made him a beloved figure in the community, especially known for his time at Dive Bar in Kitchener, where he became a staple of the local nightlife scene.
Matt’s connection with fans was one of the defining aspects of his career. He was known for his genuine nature, always making time for others and offering support to fellow artists and fans alike. Even while battling his illness, Matt continued to inspire and offer help to those around him. Whether it was offering advice to aspiring DJs or lending a hand at a friend’s event or fundraiser, Matt’s big heart was evident in everything he did. His kindness and generosity were central to his character, and those who knew him will always remember him for the positive energy he brought into their lives.
Matt’s love for music was not just about the beats and rhythms he played. It was a way for him to connect with others, share his passion, and create lasting memories. His performances at Dive Bar and other venues became legendary, as he brought energy, joy, and authenticity to every set. He made people feel seen and heard, always focusing on the crowd and creating an atmosphere that was both electric and welcoming. As DJ Surreal, Matt was able to channel his energy into the music, and it was this connection with people that made him so special.
While Matt’s impact on the music scene was immense, his legacy extended far beyond his work as a DJ. He was a loyal and loving friend who always put others before himself. Friends remember him for the way he made them feel valued, supported, and loved. One of Matt’s closest friends, Beverley Butler, shared her grief on Facebook, expressing her heartbreak over the loss of Matt and another dear friend, Darius Prine, who also passed away too soon. “Life is way too short,” she wrote, reflecting on the importance of cherishing every moment with loved ones. This sentiment has been echoed by many of Matt’s friends, who remember him not just for his musical talents, but for the way he showed up for the people he cared about.
Other friends and colleagues shared their memories of Matt, recalling the fun times they spent together, particularly at District KW, where Matt performed regularly. “The real DJ Surreal,” one friend wrote, remembering the legendary nights spent alongside him. For many, Matt was more than just a DJ – he was a constant source of positivity, a reliable friend, and an inspiration in both music and life.
As the community processes the grief of losing such a talented and kind-hearted individual, they find solace in the memories Matt left behind. His spirit lives on in the music he created, the lives he touched, and the countless people who were fortunate enough to call him a friend. In addition to his work as a DJ, Matt was also a dedicated advocate for environmental education and restoration, a cause close to his heart. In his memory, donations can be made to the Nahant Marsh Education Center, a fitting tribute to his commitment to making the world a better place.
Matt’s passing serves as a painful reminder of how fragile life can be, and how important it is to cherish the moments we have with the people we love. His friends have shared the sentiment that, in the wake of his loss, they are reminded of the importance of showing up for one another, supporting each other, and making the most of the time we have. In this way, Matt’s influence will continue to resonate with those who knew him – through the music, the friendships, and the lasting impact he made on the community.
As the music community and Matt’s friends and family come together to celebrate his life, they do so knowing that his legacy will never be forgotten. The outpouring of love and support in the wake of his passing reflects the profound impact he had on those around him. Matt’s love for life, his music, and the people in it made him a one-of-a-kind individual, and his memory will continue to inspire future generations of DJs, musicians, and friends.
A celebration of Matt’s life will be held on Friday, March 14th, at Front Street Taproom in Davenport, where those who knew him will come together to remember his vibrant personality, his generous spirit, and his immense contribution to the local music scene. In the midst of their grief, Matt’s friends and family will honor him in the way he would have wanted – surrounded by love, laughter, and music.
Though Matt has left us far too soon, his light will continue to shine through the memories of those who loved him. The music he created, the joy he brought to others, and the friendships he forged will live on. Matt Lazare, DJ Surreal, may be gone, but his legacy is far from over. His spirit will continue to inspire and uplift those who were lucky enough to know him. Rest in peace, Matt. Your impact will never be forgotten.
